Since I am not allowed to go to the Funeral, or have an input into what is happening to him, and since all his, well known, last wishes are being ignored, I shall post here his last hours in his own house.
After suffering abuse from his wife because he allowed the kettle to boil dry, he went upstairs to get away from all the yelling.Not too long after that it would have started, first a pain in the neck so bad he would have become immobilized, with cramps throughout the body, none of which he could respond to, then no control over his bowls.
Being a diabetic he required pill, this caused further compilications, causing his kidneys to start to fail and increasing the pain. All Friday he was parralized on his bed, with his wife down stairs, no point in checking on him. I arrived Friday night and asked where was dad and was given a blast of abuse, he burnt the kettle dry, so I assumed he had gone to bed to get away from it. Saturday morning, while making her a cup of tea, I made him one, and took it up, only to be asked why, by his ever so caring wife. I found my father in a condittion from which he was never to recovered.
MY FATHERS FAMILY WOULD NEVER HAVE KNOWN WITHOUT ME MAKING THE CALLS.
They think she is wonderful and will be enjoying the funeral, and helping the poor widdow who had lied to them from day one. Not one will have the guts to say anything about how she has treated me, his son.I am the only one who actually cared.God rest in peace Dad, I will be with you soon, nothing on this fucking planet to stick around for. Less than 6 Months to go.
There will be a Memorial game for my father at Poole town, I am looking at the 28th of Jan.
http://www.billgrace.co.uk
The memorial game was fantastic, thank you to everyone at Poole Town FC and all my fathers friends.
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